Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value._ Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point

Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value._ Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point – that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you._ There is only one alternative – self-value._ If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved._ You will always think it’s a mistake or luck._ Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within._ Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences._ Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security._ Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them. — Jennifer James